Getting to Know Our Neighbors - Joseph Mariani
By Pat Hurleigh
A Life of Connection and Contribution: Joseph Mariani’s Story: This month, I had the pleasure of meeting Joseph Mariani, who proudly calls himself "the second son of a second son." Born in Jamaica, Queens in 1949, Joe was the second boy born to his father, who was also the second boy born to his grandfather. At 17, Joe, his older brother, and two younger brothers moved with their parents to Floral Park, where he completed his senior year of high school and began his working life.
Joe’s early career began in the food industry, working in supermarkets. However, at 21, he realized that indoor jobs weren’t for him, so he moved into sales—a field where he could meet new people and feel more freedom. He landed a job with Durkee Foods, which changed his life. For the first time, Joe had a company car, an expense account, and the opportunity to work in Manhattan. He stayed with Durkee for 24 years, working his way up to the position of Supervisor.
Joe’s older brother, August (affectionately known as Augie), played a pivotal role in his life, almost like a second father. In 1935, Joe’s father emigrated from Italy to America, leaving behind his wife and young son in Ripi, a small town outside Rome. After serving in the U.S. Army, Joe’s father was finally able to send for his family in 1943, reuniting with his wife and now 13-year-old August. Joe and his younger brothers were born in America, creating what felt like two generations within one family.
Augie was a great older brother to Joe, often taking him on adventures. Joe fondly remembers riding over the Throgs Neck Bridge on its opening day, paying a 25-cent toll and pulling over at the top to marvel at the other bridges visible from their vantage point. Another cherished memory is driving to Kennedy Airport to watch the planes take off and land—simple pleasures for two brothers from Long Island.
In 1969, Joe began driving over the Throgs Neck Bridge for a different reason: to attend the Cresthaven Catholic Dance on Sundays. It was there that he met Dolores, whom he married in 1972. Together, they have raised two sons and a daughter, and they are now proud grandparents of two. Joe and Dolores have lived in Mineola for 51 years.
Joe has always been an active member of the community. In the 1980s, he played a key role in organizing spring soccer through the Mineola Athletic Association. As both a coach and referee, he shared his philosophy with the kids: “You’re only a loser if you stop trying.”
These days, Joe can be found singing bass in the Saint Aidan’s Church choir at the 12 PM Mass, a role he’s enjoyed since 2018. He also started writing music 10 years ago, and to date, he has written and collaborated on 60 songs across various genres. In addition to music, Joe enjoys writing short stories, playing paddleball, and running a bocce group at Wilson Park in Mineola.
Joe is passionate about movies and live music, attending concerts all over Long Island. He believes there’s no need to go to New York City for good music, as Long Island has plenty to offer.
A religious man with a deep respect for history and hard work, Joe also believes in the importance of nurturing the next generation. His current goal is simple: “I want to make people happy,” he says.
Joseph Mariani’s life is one of connection—whether through family, community service, or the arts. He continues to inspire those around him, bringing joy and positivity wherever he goes.
